Can infidelity affect child custody arrangements?

Can infidelity affect child custody arrangements?

Infidelity can create a lot of animosity and resentment between parties. The question is, is it ever relevant to child custody arrangements?

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Infidelity will rarely affect child custody orders or arrangements. In special circumstances, it could.

When considering custody orders, otherwise known as parenting orders, the Family Law Act requires the Court to regard what is in the child’s best interests as the paramount consideration.

The Family Law Act goes on to provides for a number of considerations to assist the Court in determining what is in the child’s best interests, and not surprising, infidelity is not one of them.

The act of infidelity itself is usually  irrelevant to child custody arrangements, however, the underlying cause or supplementary behaviour of the infidelity may be relevant to child custody orders.

The behaviours that arise as a result of the infidelity, by either spouse, will be relevant in circumstances where family violence or drug or alcohol abuse are involved. The Court’s primary consideration in determining what is in the best interests of the child is the need to protect the child from physical or psychological harm from be subjected to, or exposed to, abuse, neglect or family violence.

A child’s exposure to family violence could result in valid arguments which affect who gets custody, particularly if they turn physical or are found to amount to emotional or psychological abuse.

Can infidelity affect your divorce?

Infidelity does not affect your divorce.

Since 1975, Australia has adopted a “no fault” divorce system. This means the divorcing spouse is no longer required to prove that the breakdown of the marriage was due to the specific behaviour, such as adultery, of the other spouse.

Instead, the divorcing spouse now needs to prove the marriage has “broken down irretrievably”.  This really means that there has been a separation period of at least 12 months and there is no ‘reasonable likelihood’ of cohabitation resuming.

Does infidelity affect divorce settlement in Australia?

Infidelity often causes enormous amounts of animosity between parties, particularly if a new partner remains on the scene, which can significantly hinder parties’ negotiations on child custody arrangements.

It can often lead to cases becoming high conflict matters which in turn prolongs negotiations or leads to litigation. The end result being for both parties is higher legal costs.

In addition, you can also check out our latest blog around the common rules about child custody and access.

If you need advice from a specialist Melbourne child custody lawyer, in relation to your divorce or child custody arrangements, including mediation, initiating or ongoing litigation, please contact Rowan Skinner & Associates Lawyers to arrange a complimentary 15-minute consultation.


Rowan Skinner

About Rowan Skinner

Rowan Skinner is a highly skilled family lawyer with over 35 years of experience across various legal roles and jurisdictions. Rowan specialises in resolving family law disputes such as divorce, financial settlements, child custody and domestic violence cases. Through his diverse and extensive experience, Rowan has a deep understanding of the complexities and nuances involved in family law. Rowan is a skilled negotiator and litigator who follows a compassionate and client-focused approach which prioritises helping you navigate what can be an emotional and challenging time.